FWIW, for many years I did not have a water softener on any house, primarily because I didn't want sodium added to my drinking water and landscape water. I suffered with water heater failures, "water spots" on anything that air dried--glasses, shower doors, faucet hardware, windows, and so on. Then I learned about potassium chloride water softener pellets and moved into a new house with a place for a water softener that was after the sprinkler system branch. That changed everything. $2,500 installation. The regen is based on water volume and typical hardness of our local water (from the city), although it still happens at 2am.
Pool water was not a consideration at the time we had the water softener installed, but I'll tell you that what it has done for our "quality of life" makes that the best $2,500 I've spent in a long time. Don't wipe down the shower, and go back later, and there is nothing to see on the glass doors. Wash a glass and put it in the dish drainer and later it is just clean. Stainless steel inside the dishwasher looks brand new. My wife, as well as granddaughter when she visits, says she loves the way it makes her hair feel, and her skin is less dry (calcium in the water takes away your natural skin oils.) And since we use potassium salt, we don't have the worry about sodium in the water we drink or if we use the hose bibs (which are downstream of the softener) we're not slowly poisoning the ground. Yes potassium water softener pellets are $24 at HEB compared to $7 for sodium.
I have tested the water ahead of the softener, and its CH is 100 (FYI the FC is 1.0) Water at the kitchen tap: CH=0, FC=0. Both tests done with the TF100 kit. There is almost literally no maintenance or intervention to take on the water softener. I add a bag of pellets about once every 4-6 weeks. Every 18 months we change the particle and activated charcoal filters on the 5-stage reverse osmosis drinking water filter we had installed at the same time as the water softener install.
Complaints about softened water? None. Oh, if you've heard someone say that softened water feels oily, that's just soft water. Ask anyone who grew up in a place with naturally soft water. I grew up in Baton Rouge, LA where the water comes from artesian wells and is naturally soft (the city actually advertised its water around 1900 as a reason to visit or move to BR!) As a kid in high school I got used to washing my car and letting it air dry, never thought about it. When we moved to Houston, the first time I washed my dark green car and let it dry, I was shocked. What the heck is all that white stuff on my car?