Thanks Jim R.! We added two more hoses about 2:30am (swiped one from our neighbor, but left him a note in a zip lock baggie). We attached those to the two water feature pump hose bibs. That finally kept us even with the rain coming down (up under and touching the coping). Three hoses draining at once.
Needsajet also gave me the advice of siphoning. I never had to swipe gas, but I used to siphon all the time with an old aquarium. That would have been our 4th method to drain. I went to sleep when the rain slowed about 5. Woke up at 7 and the rain had been heavy again because the pool was lapping up on the coping again. My son had turned off the 2 water feature pumps but left the main pump on to drain by that hose. For some reason, the pump had shifted back to low speed (not sure if my son did that). So I've turned the pump back onto high and keeping up with the rain now with the one pump hose drain.
These tips may be everywhere on here now, but I'm typing fast and can't check other threads - our power has flickered on and off - so much fun. So posting here in case it's helpful to anyone now or in the future. Probably obvious to experts here, but wasn't to me.
1. hose bib to drain water from the pool: attach garden hose to spigot coming between filter and main pump. If need to drain faster to keep up with rain fall, attach hoses to each spigot from other pumps.
2. Important***** pump must be on; with my equipment, we kept the pump on high to get the greatest flow out of the hose. When the pump was on low, it was very low flow out of the hose. (we found that out by trial and error)
3. where to drain: we could not have used our deck drains to put the hose end (the deck drains that run to the street). Our street was a rushing river, so my logic (correct or not) said that water with no place to go would all back up in the deck drains. Then the rainfall on the deck couldn't drain. I could very likely be wrong about that. We ran the hoses to our long driveway which has a decent slope and no chance of pooling near the house. We didn't help the rushing street river.....
4. swg system: my salt level went too low showing up on my Jandy PDA. I have never found where I can TURN OFF the Jandy salt cell. The aqualink control panel outside would not let me lower the salt % level to 0 (the only thing I knew to do), but I could still do it by the PDA.
5. now a bleach pool: don't forget if you have a swg system and turn it off, you now need to watch the FC level. As others have said, take it up to SLAM level or at least high enough to give you wiggle room for timing of testing (using the band breaks from the storm to get out there and test or simply add more bleach)
6. skimmers: if you're dealing with storms that have bands as with hurricanes or tropical storms, use the break periods from the rain to get the debris out of the skimmers to keep the flow going well.
That's all I can think of for now. I'll add more if I discover anything else that helped my pool. I hope this will help someone along the way.
And thanks Meowloud for helping me keep my composure last night!
Everyone, everywhere, take care,
Suz